People in long term relationships will someday get to the point where they need to ask themselves: Is this really the person I want to spend the rest of my life with? Is the woman by my side really the one?
If you think you’re ready to take the plunge and buy a diamond ring, but you’re just not 100 percent certain, you should definitely check these signs in her. We give you 9 qualities you should look for in your partner, which mean she's the one for you, for life, and you are a lucky one!
9. WHEN SHE EXCITES YOU EVERY TIME YOU TALK OR MEET HER:
Relationship should be kept fresh and new, no matter what. You should always try new things together. If your girlfriend excites you and attracts you towards herself, every time you meet her, you should never let her go. This freshness can be tested when you both talk for hours and hours, and you never feel bored. And you guys still have so much to talk about. If you have this freshness in your relationship, you should stick to this girl for life.
8. WHEN A GIRL DOESN’T DEMAND YOU TO CHANGE:
A girlfriend is like a support system for a boy. She’s always there by his side in thick and thin. Sometimes a girl demands for change in behavior with the change in situations that become quite difficult for a guy to accept. For example, if a girl is in low mood state, she would demand you to be more polite and loving towards her. Couples have most of their conflict in these type of situation. If your girlfriend accepts you as who you are, always remember that you have a great person in your life and you should stick to her, and never let her go.
7. WHEN SHE IS COMFORTABLE ENOUGH TO DISCUSS SEX WITH YOU:
Sex is believed to be an essential part in a relationship. It makes your relationship stronger. If a girlfriend is comfortable enough and you guys have no communication gap, she is truly a loyal partner. Boys really like those girls who love to talk about sex and sexual matters. Sometimes, there are some sexual matters that need to be solved as soon as possible. Because sexual issues are the reason of conflict in a relationship, so it should be solved quickly. If a girlfriend is cool enough, she will definitely discuss those matters and solve the problems. That also shows your concern about your relationship!
6. SUPPORTIVE WITH AN IDEA OF LONG-DISTANCE RELATIONSHIP:
People say long- distance relationships are never believed to be successful. There are many reasons for that such as communication gap, sexual issues and conflicts that are never being solved. It is not easy to make understand your situation to the other person who is sitting far away from you. You will not feel that comfortable talking to him/her. If a girlfriend supports you in the idea of long-distance relationship, she’s one person to be appreciated. Because in long-distance relationship, there comes a time, when you guys can’t be together but you badly need your soulmate to be with you. She handles such situation sensibly and lovingly.
5. WHEN YOU FEEL LIGHT AFTER TALKING TO HER:
A day of a person is full of ups and downs. He has to go through his office work, earns money for his wife and children and coming back home with stress. In this situation, a girl plays a very supportive role. He need a person you would listen to him and understand him. When you are feeling low and you are going through some tensions in your life. And then you talk and discuss all the matters with her. And you immediately feel light and better. You should feel lucky enough, that you are blessed to have such an amazing life partner. A man need a supportive and most of all, a real girl who would be beside him, no matter what. This type of girl is quite difficult to find. If you have one in your life, never let her feel down.
4. WHEN SHE IS ACTUALLY CONCERNED ABOUT YOUR SEX LIFE:
As I have talked about it earlier, sex is one essential part in your relationship. It makes your relationship wild, energetic and stronger. If your girlfriend is actually concerned about you, she will definitely be concerned about your sex life. She will be confidently talking about it and her goals will be all about the pleasure in bed as well as in your life. A loving girlfriend knows what makes her man excited. She plan out for every night with something different and be prepared with it. If your girlfriend has this quality in her, you should never leave her at any cost!
3. WHEN YOU HAVE AN INTELLIGENT GIRLFRIEND:
Intelligence is that one quality, which every man is in search for. A man should consider her girlfriend to be capable enough to discuss ideas and fully understand his perspective. She should help him in his work when he is stressed out and be motivational. She should be resourceful for him. A guy is quite attracted to a girl who is confident and independent, so she should have confidence in her. It’s not like; she is fully dependent on his boyfriend. She should understand all her duties and possibly do it in the best way. If you find this quality in your girlfriend, do let her know!
2. WHEN SHE CONSIDER YOUR FAMILY AS HER FAMILY:
Family is one blessing too. A girl should always consider and love your family and friends like her family. She should be kind and loving towards them. It is kind of her job to adore the people you love. If your girlfriend loves you, she will be interested in your friends and family both. She will love you and the people around you. She should claim your mom and dad as her own. One thing she should understand is that she comes after your parents. Parents always come first. Despite of knowing and understanding this, she is always keen to meet them and welcome them in her best way, and this is one of the best possible qualities found in her.
1. WHEN SHE BELIEVE GIVING RESPECT IS THE MOST IMPORTANT:
You give respect and you earn it. Giving respect is the most important and most basic need of a relationship. A girlfriend who would love you will never share your secrets with others. She would respect your privacy and she will understand the fact that the things you both talk with each other should be considered in between you two. No third person would never be allowed to interfere in your personal life. It’s not only her duty to respect you but you should prioritize her and respect her in the same way.
“The best possible thing you can get out of a relationship is that you're with someone who encourages you to be the best version of yourself every day.” - Nishan Panwar
If you find these qualities in your girlfriend, share with us in comments!